As I reflect on my journey, I think about what all I have learned. The other day I went to lunch with a great friend who has experienced this same journey as me and I realized so many blessings have come out of infertility. I used to think that I have lost so many friends through this process however I have since realized I have gained some really great ones that I might not have had the opportunity to meet or spend time with had I not shared similar experiences as them. I have also learned that you are so much stronger than you think you are and that tears do not mean weakness. I have been taught compassion because you really do not know what someone else is going through and this applies to many aspects in life. Perception is not everything. I have learned to be patient (still continuously working on this one) as the process of infertility treatments and now adoption means quite a bit of waiting and patience. I have come to realize that I am tenacious, driven and I don't give up easily. If I truly want something I will find a way to achieve it (still have some aspects in my life that I need to apply this to).
It is easy to seclude yourself when hurting and probably not the best idea to do so however it did help with my faith in God, it strengthened that bond because you know you can't do anything with out Him.
We all have our own path and trials and tribulations but we make it through and you just have to have faith and hope throughout this journey we call life! I believe it is good to step back and look at what you are going through and contemplate on what you should be learning from it and grow. I don't think you are really "grown" once you reach 18, life is a continuous growth and learning process.
